Looking for love under a full moon

29 Nov

I wrote a short piece on being single this week. It started out as an “assignment” that had come out of a first date from Match.com last week. The purpose was to write about a funny/embarrassing date I had experienced. That would have been an easy one. I’ve had lots of interesting dates that have turned into something more along the lines of full-on mortification. But Monday evening, I was taking a walk in my beautiful neighborhood, and when I looked up, the almost-full moon spoke to me so loudly that I couldn’t ignore it. So I decided on a commentary about being single instead. Following is what I wrote:

On Being Solo. You’re an incredible single, solitary being. You’re cyclical and pulled by the tides, like the phases of the moon. Some people can only see you as an enigma, hiding in the shadow of the sun during those wan days, mysterious but needy; those people haven’t been single for a long time, and, let’s face it, they don’t ever want to see that side of the moon ever again. Those people, with their selective amnesia, look at you pityingly, as if you’ve been branded with the word SINGLE and truly believe that showing up to a party alone is a terrible burden or a fate worse than death. But you know that you’re holding all the cards…there’s a vast inventory of love epiphanies hiding inside the penumbra that can’t wait to powerfully emerge. There is light playing in the shadows; those little crevices hold much more than anyone could possibly imagine. The brilliant, beaming face of the man on the moon is just a front for a haven of love that hasn’t found a specific path yet, but who needs one? Give it freely and don’t be sparing with it. Moonbeams aren’t selective; their light blesses every face in all of creation. Know that you are a stunning body of light with a purpose of giving love. Being a single, solitary entity doesn’t sound so bad anymore, does it?

There is peace in this chaotic journey of giving your love—it’s all in the way you perceive it.

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7 Responses to “Looking for love under a full moon”

  1. Linda Lander November 29, 2012 at 1:02 pm #

    Great post Rebecca. Love our writing. Maybe I can use a quote or two in my Seasoned Love documentary trailer?

    • beckydancer November 29, 2012 at 1:56 pm #

      I would be honored if you quoted me in your documentary trailer, Linda. Make sure and let me know so I can look forward to it!

  2. Linda Lander November 29, 2012 at 3:20 pm #

    Sure will!

  3. iammarcello December 1, 2012 at 3:12 pm #

    Great post!

    • beckydancer December 6, 2012 at 10:38 am #

      Thank you, Marcello! I am enjoying your blog as well. 🙂

  4. mictori February 2, 2013 at 12:30 pm #

    This is amazing! Thanks! I needed this!

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